
by Ema Fulga
Ema is an AI Search Content Strategist and GEO (Generative Engine Optimisation) expert. She's also the founder of decipher., an AEO agency that helps brands appear where people are now searching: AI-powered platforms like Perplexity, ChatGPT, Gemini, and others. With a background in copywriting and creative strategy, she’s on a mission to turn messy messaging into clear and structured content that helps brands get mentioned and cited in AI searches.
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TL;DR: Open ChatGPT, ask it the questions your customers ask, and see whose name comes up. If it's not yours, you're not "doing badly at SEO." You're invisible in the place people now make decisions. The good news: it's checkable in ten minutes, and fixable with the right foundations. Here's how to run the check properly, why one look will mislead you, and what to do when the answer stings.
There's a particular kind of silence that should worry you more than a bad Google ranking. It's the silence of ChatGPT recommending your competitor by name while your brand doesn't get a mention.
Here's the thing: people don't scroll ten blue links anymore. They ask. ChatGPT alone hit over 800 million weekly active users and around 2.5 billion prompts a day as of late 2025, and a fair chunk of those prompts are "best agency for X," "is [brand] any good," "who should I use for Y." When someone asks that, ChatGPT hands them a name. The only question that matters is whose.
So before you spend another dirham, pound or euro on content, find out where you actually stand. Let's check.
Why "do I show up in ChatGPT?" is the question that matters now
Google tells you your rank. ChatGPT tells you your reputation. Those are different things, and the second one is now doing the introductions.
When ChatGPT names a brand in an answer, that's not a link in a list the user has to evaluate. It's a recommendation, delivered with the quiet authority of "the AI said so," and it lands at the exact moment someone's deciding. You can be sitting on page one of Google and still be completely absent from that conversation, because being crawlable and being quotable are not the same job. (More on that distinction in our piece on how UAE brands get mentioned on ChatGPT.)
The ten-minute check (do this now)
You don't need a tool to get a first read. You need to think like your customer and ask what they'd ask.
Open ChatGPT. Ideally, logged out, or in a temporary chat, so your own history doesn't flatter the results.
Ask the buying questions, not your brand name. Try the prompts a real customer uses:
"Best [your service] agency in [your city]"
"Who does [the thing you do] for [your type of client]?"
"Is [your brand] any good?" and "alternatives to [a competitor]"
Write down what comes back. Which brands get named? In what order? Is yours there at all, and if it is, is it described the way you'd want?
Ask it to show its working. Follow up with "Which sources did you use?" ChatGPT will often name the pages it leaned on. If your competitors' sites show up and yours doesn't, that's your gap in plain sight.
Repeat in the languages your customers use. If you serve a bilingual market, run the prompts in both. Answers, and who gets recommended, can differ more than you'd expect.
If your name shows up, cited correctly, in the answers that matter: lovely. If it doesn't, don't panic. You've just found the most useful gap in your marketing.
Why a single check will lie to you
Here's where most people stop and get the wrong answer. One prompt, one moment, one verdict. Don't.
AI answers wobble. Ask the same question twice and you can get two different line-ups. Results shift with phrasing, with the user's history, with which model is running, and across platforms. ChatGPT, Gemini, Perplexity, Google's AI Overviews and Claude don't all agree on who's worth mentioning. So a single "yes, I appeared!" is not a victory lap, and a single "no" isn't a death sentence.
What you actually want is a pattern: across several phrasings, across platforms, across a few days. That's the difference between a screenshot and a measurement, and it's exactly why we built a free AI Brand Visibility Score to give brands a baseline instead of a vibe.
What actually decides whether you get cited
Once you know you're missing, the real question is why. It comes down to three things, and none of them are "post more often."
Authority. ChatGPT won't recommend a brand it can't verify. Who you are, what you do, your results, your credentials: that picture has to be clear and consistent across your whole site, not just the homepage.
Structure. AI needs to understand your content to quote it. Clean headings, logical flow, and the technical signposts (schema markup, metadata, a tidy
llms.txt) tell it exactly what each page is and which question it answers. (We get into the technical weeds in our guide to schema markup for AI visibility.)Quotability. Generic content makes AI sound generic, and it knows it. A clear point of view, a real voice and something actually worth repeating is what gets pulled into an answer. Your brand voice isn't just marketing. It's what makes you citable.
Tick those three and you stop being a page AI crawls past and start being a source it reaches for.
What to do if you're invisible
First, breathe. Being absent today says nothing about how good you are. It only says how legible you are to AI right now. That's fixable, and faster than you'd think. We managed to get decipher. cited in AI search for "AI search optimisation" in the UAE within about four to five months of optimising properly. Not overnight, but not a five-year SEO slog either.
The order of operations:
Get your baseline. Run the check above.
Fix the foundations. Structure and schema first. There's no point being quotable if AI can't parse you.
Earn the citations. Build authority and publish content that answers the prompts your customers actually use, in a voice worth quoting.
Track it. Re-check on a cadence so you can see what's moving, rather than guessing.
If you'd rather not DIY it, that's literally our job. An AI Search Audit shows you exactly where you're being missed and why, and our foundation engagements typically start between £1.5k and £3k depending on scope.
FAQ
Does ChatGPT pull live from the web? Not always by default. It leans on what it learned in training, topped up by browsing when that's switched on. So getting cited is about being the kind of well-structured, trusted source it has learned to reach for, not just having a live website.
How often should I check? Treat it like a metric, not a one-off. A quick monthly pass across your core prompts is plenty to spot movement; more often if you're actively optimising.
My competitor shows up and I don't. Why? Usually because they're clearer (authority), more legible (structure), or more quotable (voice), not because they're better. All three are things you can close the gap on.
Want the honest version of where you stand? Run the ten-minute check above. And if the silence is louder than you'd like, book a free discovery call and we'll show you exactly where ChatGPT is skipping you, and how to change that.
Tah-tah, darling.